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Give Yourself the Best Gift Ever: Opt Out of the Busy Season (Here's How!)

What if you chose not to be busy? And when I say "busy" - I mean the frantic, too-much-on-your-plate, panicky sense of the word. You know, when you are so overwhelmed you start forgetting things! Important things, like:

  • Snuggling.
  • Saying "I Love You."
  • Giving thanks.
  • Noticing things.
  • Connecting.
  • Feeling.
  • Hugs.
  • Hello's.
  • Goodbye's.
  • Caring.
  • Family.
  • Listening.

How to Gift Yourself

Plan ahead. If you want quiet time, you have to X it off your calendar and treat it like an important appointment.  Don't let things get in the way. Look ahead at your week and your month to find space.

Allow for quiet time. Boredom breeds creativity.  Quiet is a coping strategy. You need it, your kids need it more. EVERY. DAY. Even for just a few moments . . . to breathe.

Say "No." It's okay. Sometimes you must.

Balance. You will have times when your schedule tips towards busy. Just make sure you tip it back the next day.

You WILL miss out. If you choose to opt out of busy, then you are going to miss out on something. Guess what? It's not a big deal. Because for every little thing you miss out on - there will be big fulfillment where you choose to focus your energy without distraction.

I wrote a post called "Gift Yourself" in 2009 where I mentioned gifting myself with time to "unplug for a few days and play even more with my family" including spending time with my very spry 99 year old grandmother. About a month later, we celebrated Nama's 100th birthday on January 13th, 2010. And on Valentine's Day she passed away.

My cousin, me, and Nama circa 1975.

If I could, I would wrap up "time" and give it to you. Only redeemable during the Busy Season. You deserve it.

But this gift is one you must to give to yourself.

Be generous.

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About Michele Whiteaker

Writer mom and nature guide promoting play and empowering families to prioritize outside time since 2008. Park information gathered through my personal experiences and provided as a FREE community resource to millions of Orange County families over the past 17 years via blog and social media. Subscribe to my FREE weekly email inspiring you with park tips and play ideas.

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My name is Michele Whiteaker and I'd love for you to think of me as your personal Play Concierge. When I used to search online for family-friendly activities, nothing quite fit my playful outdoor interests or tight budget.

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